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Before you book
Life coach vs therapist: which one do you need?
A therapist treats mental health. A life coach helps you work out what you want to change and how to stay with it. If you are in crisis, start with clinical care. If you are getting through your days and still feel stuck, coaching can be a good place to begin.
The difference
What each role is for
Therapy is a licensed health service in the United States. A therapist can diagnose, treat conditions such as depression and PTSD, and work with trauma that is still active in the room.
Life coaching is not licensed like therapy. There is no state license required to call yourself a coach. A careful coach is clear about that limit. She does not diagnose. She does not replace your clinician.
A counselor is usually a licensed clinician with a counseling degree. A psychologist has doctoral-level training and can do testing and treatment. A life coach has none of those legal duties. She works with goals, habits, and decisions.
When coaching fits
When coaching is a good next step
Coaching fits when you can get through a workday, you are not in immediate danger, and the problem is a decision, a pattern, or a next chapter you keep putting off.
Career change, confidence at work, a relationship you want to handle differently, or burnout when you are exhausted and need a plan. Those are common reasons women start coaching on this site.
If advice from friends has not helped, you may still be in the right place. You need someone who will not hand you another list, and who will ask what you will do before the next session.
When to start with therapy
When you need a therapist first
Go to a licensed clinician if you have suicidal thoughts, recent trauma you cannot work through safely, an eating disorder, addiction that needs medical care, or a diagnosis that is currently unmanaged.
Some women use both. Therapy covers clinical care. Coaching covers the decisions and habits you can work on outside the clinic. That only works when both people know who owns what.
A coach who promises to heal your trauma in six calls is selling past her license. Find a clinician instead.
A common mix-up
Relationship coach vs couples therapist
A relationship coach works on communication, boundaries, and what you want from the relationship you are in, or the one you want next. She is not treating a clinical disorder in the couple.
Couples therapy is the better door when there is abuse, a mental-health crisis, or a pattern that needs a clinician in the room. If you mainly need language and decisions, start with a relationship coach.
Another common mix-up
Burnout coaching is not clinical treatment
Burnout coaching is for women who are still getting through their days and need to change the load, the job, or the way they recover. It is not treatment for major depression.
If you cannot get out of bed, or work has become impossible, call a therapist or your doctor. If you can still do the work and hate what it is costing you, a burnout coach is a reasonable first look.
Money, briefly
What you pay
Therapy is often billed through insurance when it is medically necessary. Coaching almost never is. You pay the session fee yourself.
That can make coaching look more expensive per hour. It can also make it faster to start. Read the client cost page for ranges. What coaches earn is a different question, on a different page.
Shorter pieces on this question
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Related
What coaching is, what it costs, how to hire
When you know which door you need, the next step is picking a person.
If you want help with a decision, start with a coach
If you are unsafe or unwell, start with a licensed clinician. Do not use a coaching directory for that.
If you want help with a decision or a next chapter, browse women coaches and read a profile before you book.
Coach vs therapist questions
What is a life coach vs a therapist?
A therapist is a licensed clinician who treats mental health. A life coach is not a substitute clinician. She helps you set direction and follow through on work that is not a medical diagnosis.
Is a life coach the same as a counselor or psychologist?
No. Counselors and psychologists are licensed (or working toward licensure) and can treat clinical issues. A life coach is not in that legal category.
Can I see a life coach and a therapist at the same time?
Yes, if both know the split. The therapist owns clinical care. The coach owns decisions and habits that are safe to work on outside the clinic.
Is life coaching cheaper than therapy?
Not always. Therapy may be covered by insurance. Coaching usually is not. Compare the out-of-pocket session fee, not the number you see on social media.
What about life coach vs career coach or health coach?
Those are specialties, not licenses. A career coach focuses on work. A health coach focuses on habits around the body. A life coach may cover a wider brief. None of them replace a physician or a therapist.
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