Becoming Loveurselfwell

Becoming Loveurselfwell

26 Sep 2026

When I was in high school biology, I finished my exam early and rested my head on my hand, trying my hardest to look awake and respectful.

My teacher looked at me and said, “Who do you think you are, a model?”

It’s funny how one comment can become an identity.

I spent years trying to make other people comfortable. Shrinking myself. Softening myself. Internalizing their projections until I started picking myself apart the same way they did.

Becoming a therapist changed everything.

I realized I was pouring compassion, validation, and grace into everyone else…while leaving nothing for myself. That was my wake-up call.

If loving myself means I’m “obsessed with myself,” “cocky,” “stuck up,” or “full of myself,” then I guess I fit THIS JOB description perfectly.

A women’s SELF LOVE COACH 😘


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Kayla Montaque

Kayla Montaque Certified Certified coach

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